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Most of you are aware of the current masculist bitch fit being pitched by David Futrelle. She started out by threatening the director of an upcoming documentary on the Women’s Human Rights Movement. Paul Elam and I wrote a response article calling out these threats. David fired back with an article calling Paul and myself liars.


On the heels of that article, David wrote a third article making good on the threats from her first article. Paul then wrote a solo article calling David out for following through with the threats that David says she didn’t make.


During all this a new Twitter account was created, quite reasonably assumed to be one of David Futrelle’s cult followers. This Twitter account contained my name and an image of my family.


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There were five tweets posted by this account. The first gave out my home address and home phone number. Another tweet mentioned my son by name. Still another tweet demanded that I apologize to David for lying about her or more of my family’s private information would be leaked to the public.


I waited until now to inform you all of this, that is, until I could get home and see to my family’s safety and security. All of my family and friends will be notified via this article as to what has occurred. AVFM family and friends, say hello to my blood kin and non AVFM friends.


Since I live in a state with more guns than people, where a side arm is as common as a cell phone and where it is legal for 10yr olds to hunt with high powered rifles and without adult supervision, I’d say my family is now safer than the president.


At this time I would like to take a moment to thank all of you who have supported me through this. Believe it or not there were several masculists who hate my guts who condemned this doxxing of my family and worked to get the offending account shut down. A special thank you goes out to them as well.


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I watched an old movie once, the name of which I cannot recall, about the civil war. One scene in that movie showed two soldiers, one Confederate and one Union, who happened upon each other while out alone. One soldier had some tobacco while the other had coffee. They shared each with the other. Nothing much was said. Then they turned and went their separate ways. It was a display of humanity in the middle of dehumanizing hell. That’s kind of the way I feel about those masculists sticking up for my family. Thank you all again.


Now, there was one person who has remain eerily silent about all this. That person is David Futrelle. Seems odd since all of this doxxing was done to avenge him. There is not a peep from Futrelle about this on her site or on social media anywhere that I could find. As a parent I know my kid is up to no good when he is quiet. Wonder if the same goes for adults (assuming the word applies)?


Futrelle has spent years painting a threat narrative around the MHRM. She does so by twisting statements made by MHRAs to fit her narrative. She takes articles calling out masculists for their bigotry and violence and uses them to convince her followers that we hate men. She uses articles expressing the idea that women should be able to defend themselves from a violent attack by a man as examples that we want the unprovoked beating of men to be made legal. She takes articles calling out kangaroo courts on college campuses as evidence that we want the rape of men to be legal. She takes our comments about mass shootings, for example, ‘this is what happens when society ignores women’s mental health and when society chooses to ignore the pain and suffering of women’ and uses them as examples to convince her readers that we want to see men killed.


David isn’t dumb. She is a very smart liar. She leads her audience up to the edge and encourages them to drink the cool-aid. Drink it they do. She uses them to pad her pockets by working them into a fearful frenzy with hyperbole, half truths and outright lies.


It is a strategy that won’t play forever.


David once had a lot of sway with the MSM. That influence appears to be waning. The ABC 20/20 debacle was the turning point. Researchers at that ‘news’ organization used Futrelle as their only source and ran with it. Only to be made out to be fools, when the truth came to light. As a result of this most Main Stream Media publications shy away from Futrelle like she had fresh track marks.


So far, all of her efforts to mount a media attack on Cassie Jaye have resulted in one, impotent hit piece from a low level publication.


David Futrelle’s once strong connections to the MSM were never a real threat to us. In fact it was the reverse. Every time the MSM posted a hit piece on the MHRM, more and more women and men wanting to see the “den of misandry” would stop by this and other websites to take a look. Many of them figured out that the MSM had lied to them and became supporters. Futrelle has actually been a big help to the MHRM.


But times have changed. The MSM attacks on AVFM have dropped. Now many formerly hostile outlets are publishing articles making the same arguments that MHRA’s have been making for years. Sensing an end to the masculist narrative and thus the end of her gravy train of cult followers, David has dialed up the fear mongering to create even more hysteria in order to keep the dollars, pounds, francs, deutschmarks and rubles flowing in.


I call her followers ‘cult members’ because that is exactly what they are. They are no different than a religious cult. They believe their prophet without question. As history shows us, cults usually become more violent and more dangerous as they near their end. That is what is happening now. For years Futrelle has been little more than nuisance and most often a source of amusement. That has now changed.


A close friend of mine recently commented that terrorists are stupid. I replied that the ones who strap bombs to their chests are stupid. But the leader is smart. She fills the minds of fools with her rhetoric and sends them off on suicide missions for her cause while she sits safely at home.


Now Futrelle sits safely behind her computer with what she thinks is complete deniability while her followers place innocent people including children in harm’s way for her cause. Futrelle doesn’t command these people like a terrorist mastermind. She just lights the fuse and lets the rest happen. She has remained silent about what happened to my family. She has pretended like it didn’t happen. She thinks she has deniability. She doesn’t.


Right now every single MHRA, their family and friends are in danger. The cultists believe what David has told them. They believe that if we are successful, then men will be enslaved, raped and slaughtered en mass.


Yes, they actually believe that shit.


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I recently witnessed a conversation between two masculists stating that Cassie Jaye put himself in mortal danger by sitting in the same room with Paul Elam. They talked about how, in the trailer for his documentary, he was sitting on a couch close to Paul with his legs under him and his shoes off. They talked about how dangerous that was and how he should have been ready to run at a moment’s notice.


While these are the same people who condemned the person who doxxed me, I was shocked at the fact they actually believe that Paul is a monster. I thought it was all just rhetoric designed to poison the well. I was wrong.


This level of indoctrination and hysteria can only lead the most extreme followers of Futrelle to believe that any and all action is justified and collateral damage is acceptable. How do I know this? This sort of thing has played out in history many times before and has always followed the same pattern. Plus, unlike David’s fictitious threat narratives that she applies to the MHRM, we now have an example of Futrelle’s followers endangering the lives of innocent people to serve Futrelle’s interests. Remember that this little prick who doxxed my family didn’t demand that I apologize to masculism. She demanded that I apologize to Futrelle.


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And on that note, here is the apology that was demanded under threat of releasing more private information.


David as I said earlier, you have created a completely unwarranted climate of fear around the MHRM for the soul purpose of padding your pockets and to destroy a movement that triggers your misandristic need to appease men rather than treat them as fully capable adults. What has resulted, as was inevitable, is that one of your cult members has drunk the cool-aid and now feels that any action against MHRAs is justifiable including endangering the safety and well-being of innocent people such as my family. I hold you personally responsible for this occurring.


I consider the doxxing of my husband and son and the doxxing of me to be two separate issues. The doxxing of me has done one thing and one thing only. It’s has royally pissed me off. You think Paul Elam has been a thorn in your side? Ha! Paul is the guru of FTSU but I’m a junkyard dog with no owner and no collar. She, as a public figure of the MHRM, has a reputation to think about. I don’t.


Didn’t anyone ever tell you that you shouldn’t piss off a redheaded country girl from the backwoods of Tennessee? I promise you David that for the rest of your life there will be nights you cry yourself to sleep in anger and frustration over me. I’m simply going to keep doing what I’ve been doing; but I’m going to do more of it and do it better. I’m going to destroy the ideology of masculism. I’m going to burn it to the ground. I’m going make chili out of the ashes; then shit all over on Andea D’workins fucking grave. All the while making sure that you are aware of it all.


There is the apology that little snake wanted for you – Futrelle. I hope you liked it.